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  • For Once in My Life 
    by Arlinda Willis and Rob Cole

The Biography of Arlinda Willis

Yearbook photo, 1969

To Be Published

For Once in My Life

Imagine starving pounds off of your body with a pantry and refrigerator stocked with food. Arlinda Willis did not have to imagine it—she lived it as she waited for the doctors to pin a name on her malady. Arlinda had 14 minutes of fame from 1965 to 1975. FOR ONCE IN MY LIFE (95,000 words) is Arlinda’s last minute of fame, a biography/memoir that chronicles her journey from the Jim Crow South to her final days in California. The main narrative teases at a slow-moving romance between Arlinda and a younger coworker. At 56 life hands her a string of challenges: Getting fired from two law firms in quick succussion, starting a new career in healthcare only to get stopped once more by illness. Through it all her coworker is a steadfast presence and unwavering support as she reconciles her past with her present while she comes to terms with her diagnosis. The adjunct narrative reveals Arlinda’s early years in the segregated South, which fosters a fierce determination that propels her to groundbreaking achievements in the entertainment industry, dancing on the hit parade show Upbeat, winning first runner-up in Cleveland’s first Black beauty pageant, and touring as a stage dancer with Rare Earth. Upon reflection of a life well-lived, she finds the greatest challenges in the quietest moments, and the simplest joys that make life worth living.

Arlinda’s journey will resonate deeply with music lovers, healthcare survivors, and readers who appreciate emotional and transformative narratives. Those who are familiar with Narrative Nonfiction and Multicultural Nonfiction will share in the book’s joy, pain, and humor. Fans of WHEN BREATH BECOMES AIR by Paul Kalanithi, BLACK IS THE BODY by Emily Bernard, and JUST AS I AM by Cicely Tyson will find a home in this deeply personal story.

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Entertainer

Singing, dancing, modeling

Professional

Eastman-Kodak, Thelen, Littler

Entrepreneur

Jewelry, clothing

For Once in My Life encapsulated

Arlinda Willis was always moving. Feet tapping, hips swaying, hands reaching for something just beyond her grasp. From the red-dirt roads of Alabama to the bright lights of Cleveland, from the hum of beauty pageants to the pulsing rhythms of stage performances, she knew how to command a room, how to make it come alive. She danced on television screens, in the shadow of legends, in the smoky haze of nightclubs where the music never truly stopped. But fame flickered like a candle in a draft, and the life that had once been sequins and spotlights closed like a red velvet curtain.

When the stage lights dimmed, she found herself in the halls of corporate America, where a different kind of performance was required. She sharpened her mind, learned the art of survival in a new world that operated on a different set of rules. The law firms, the boardrooms, the quiet battles fought in offices where the air smelled of masculine power and printer toner. She built a name for herself again.

And then there was Rob. Young, eager, watching, learning. He entered her life by accident, by fate who knew she would need someone who would not abandon her. Together, they walked through the years building stories, triumphs and losses, and enjoyed meals sharing laughter and contemplation.

Arlinda had always known how to make something beautiful out of the hand she was dealt. She had done it with music and dance, then in the corporate world. But life kept throwing her wildcards, first with alcohol addiction. Shortly after overcoming that, she got handed a cancer diagnosis. After a lifetime of independence, she would have to learn to let down her guards and let people in to help with this one last fight.

Montage of Arlinda throughout her life